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What is a High Conflict Divorce Coach?

... and why you need one. 

Navigating the turbulent waters of a high-conflict divorce can be overwhelming, emotionally draining, and fraught with legal complexities.  It will most likely be one of the most difficult times of your life. That is why we are here, to provide you with the support and guidance necessary to navigate this challenging journey and emerge stronger on the other side.

At Break Free Divorce Coach, we are professionals adept at helping you navigate the unique challenges of divorce under strained circumstances. Our role extends beyond that of a traditional divorce coach, as we specialize in managing and mitigating the intense emotional and legal battles that often characterize high-conflict divorces. We are trained to provide you with the tools and strategies needed to cope with the emotional turmoil, establish effective communication channels, and make informed decisions that prioritize your well-being and that of any children involved.

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Are you navigating the challenging path of divorce, seeking guidance, support, and empowerment? Your journey to a new chapter begins with a single step. Take the first step to claiming back your freedom and schedule a COMPLIMENTARY 30-minute consultation.

Call or Text (848) 346-2231 or email kelly@breakfreedivorcecoach.com

How We Can Help

Building A Team of Professionals

We can assist with providing you with references for lawyers, therapists, mediators, child custody evaluators, and financial evaluators to help you achieve your goals.

Strategic Communication

We provide our clients with different strategies to communicate with their ex-spouse that establish clear boundaries, but also demonstrate that you are not creating conflict in the relationship.  We provide you with ways to communicate with your case professionals to optimize time & costs.

Documentation Preparation & Review

We provide you with different strategies to organize your documentation that will present well in court.  We also assist with legal document review so that you can maximize your time with your attorney effectively.  

Get to Know Us

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Hello, 

my name is Kelly

I am the owner of Break Free Divorce Coach.  Not only am I a coach, but I have also been in the same spot as many of you.   I had the unfortunate experience of going through a tumultuous divorce and custody battle from my ex-husband.  Through my divorce process I needed to learn how to fight for what was best for myself and for my children. The expectations that the family court system has for divorce proceedings does not take into account the manipulation & control tactics that are used by a high conflict person. This is where I can help you.  I understand what it is like to feel trapped, I understand what it is like to feel betrayed by the system that is supposed to protect you, and I understand the struggles that you need to go through to have your freedom. 

What Some of Our Clients are Saying

"Kelly helped me to see the feelings and thoughts I had were all normal and how these thoughts and feelings were holding ME back. She provided me with skills and tools to work through everything going on. She gave me strength and courage to speak to my ex and handle situations did not feel I had the courage to do."

"Kelly is results oriented.  This was exactly what I needed in the blur and chaos of overwhelm and fear.  She straightened things out with me, helped me focus on how best to use my limited time and energy.  She is a skilled thinker, detail oriented, a strong and supportive communicator."

" Kelly is very informative and knowledgeable about divorce, especially dealing with an abusive ex.  She has taught me not to react right away, take some time to think, and take all emotions out.  I am very fortunate to have had her come into my life, I do not know how I would do this with our her.  Thank you, Kelly, for always being available to listen to my anxieties and worries and making me feel at ease and most of all guiding me!"

"I am still here because of Kelly. Like most, my journey started isolated and terrified. Now that I am many years out, some things have changed, yet some things have stayed the same. The Narcissists playbook will remain the same; to maintain control through any means including manipulating the most vulnerable children. But what can change? Connecting with Kelly. Someone who has experience and works daily with others who are evolving into warriors who have found peace. 

Kelly is incredibly intelligent and skillful with communication. Most importantly, she has a strategic mind that is invaluable to help you keep the big picture items in focus and manage the day-to-day. 

Kelly is the voice I needed when I lost mine.  

Kelly helped me navigate when I couldn't even comprehend the unhinged behaviors I was experiencing from my ex-husband.  Her support and empowerment helped me survive and get to a place of calm and peace. I still have to go through the challenges, but with Kelly's resources, I have more peace than ever before.

Kelly can save your energy so you can stay present for yourself, your family,  and your kids. 

Have the intro call.

You will be one step closer to peace!"

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